How To Focus Your Deep Love On Your Child

Unstoppable, unspoken ways to show your child love.

When I was three years old my mother picked me up and threw me across the room onto a sofa. I was astonished, I wasn’t used to being treated like this!

Part of the reason is my mother’s childhood. When my mother was eighteen months old, Nan had twin boys. In 1942 that was a very big deal, and my mother got pushed aside, sometimes physically. The boys were idolised and mother was definitely shown she was less important than them.

So when mother had my sister, she did the same to me. I was pushed aside and treated badly. We parent the way we have been parented. Every single event is there in our subconscious and it is what we draw on as the correct method of parenting.

So if I didn’t have a childhood full of love and compassion, what do I know about showing love? I was shown exactly what not to do.

When I decided that my parenting wasn’t good enough I went and got therapy to help me, with anger management. Because of the therapy and some hard work I have become a better Mum myself.

The very fact you have read this far shows that you want to be a good parent. That’s awesome because it shows you know that is what your kids deserve. You should be proud of yourself for hunting for ways to improve.

Of course, you will need to put the ideas into action to get the benefit of them. Let’s continue, and take a look at some behaviours you will want to avoid.

Therapy for Extreme Childhoods

We often hear about people who have had shockingly bad childhoods. If you count yourself as one of those, then you will need to go to counselling. There is no doubt in my mind that extremely bad childhoods need lots of therapy to get over.

Check out any available therapy and keep trying different therapists until you find one you can work with. If you feel your parents made mistakes and you want to avoid them, read on for some helpful tips.

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